Safety

2026-Jul-06, Monday 11:47
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"The one who hurt you doesn't get a say in how you choose to protect yourself from it happening again."
-- Ehowton


Periodically I encounter people who feel conflicted about obligations and safety. Frequently it's because an abusive parent or spouse has become incapacitated or is heading in that direction. I've often said that you don't owe an abuser anything. The above quote makes it clear why. Acts of neglect or abuse remove any obligation the victim may have had to the abuser. Cast off, expended, gone. You are completely free to protect yourself by ignoring the abuser's wants or needs, walking away, and never seeing them again. You may deny them all your resources -- time, energy, money, attention, everything. They made their choices and now get to live with the consequences.

Remember this if someone pressures you to harm yourself by taking care of an abuser. That person is trying to use and harm you also. Classify them as another threat to your safety.

Monday Update 7-6-26

2026-Jul-06, Monday 00:42
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These are some posts from the later part of last week in case you missed them:
Safety
Enshittification
Wildlife
Fossils
Birdfeeding
Audio
Economics
Birdfeeding
Philosophical Questions: Morals
Trees
Writing About Fireworks
Birdfeeding
Early Humans
Today's Adventures
Agriculture
Gaming
Birdfeeding
Follow Friday 7-3-26: Nature
Conservation
Birdfeeding
Community Thursdays
Today's Adventures
Science
Winterfest in July Bingo Card 7-1-26
Space Exploration
Birdfeeding
Clean Beaches Week
Affordable Housing
Cuddle Party

LiveJournal has 37 comments. Poem: "Walnut Park" has 46 comments. Early Humans has 22 comments.


There will be a Poetry Fishbowl on Tuesday, July 7 with a theme of "Don't add to the casualty list in an emergency."


"Save All the Pieces" belongs to The Big One and needs $99 to be complete. Stylet has misplaced a giant ground sloth.


The weather has been sweltering this past week. Seen at the birdfeeders this week: a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches, two starlings, a mourning dove, a male cardinal, a robin, a male indigo bunting, and a fox squirrel. I've seen several bats flying around. Bobwhite quail are calling. Fireflies are swarming. Cicadas are singing. Currently blooming: pansies, violas, sweet alyssum, marigolds, honeysuckle, snapdragons, lantana, million bells, blue lobelia, petunias, portulaca, nemesia, fan flowers, firecracker plant, pineapple sage, yucca, Asiatic lilies, snowball viburnum, tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers, spiderwort, narrow-leaved mountain mint, elderberries, golden rain tree, garlic chives, blackberry lily, Queen Anne's lace, purple echinacea, yellow coneflower, frost aster, cosmos. Green fruit: tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers. Ripe fruit: mulberries.

Safety

2026-Jul-05, Sunday 22:09
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The Reflector That Started a Conversation

Andy realized he couldn’t reconstruct a dangerous road himself. But he could start a conversation. That insight led to a simple idea: a small reflector that could be handed to pedestrians and cyclists throughout the community. The reflector features a uniquely Fort Smith logo: a footprint shaped from the letters “FS,” making it both a practical safety tool and a symbol of local pride.


This is an example of incremental change, doing the next smallest thing to improve a situation. It's replicable anywhere that pedestrian and/or biker safety in low light is a concern.

Ideally, people should build safe roads, but that takes time and lots of money. Walkers and bikers should wear high-visibility clothing, but that is expensive and often uncomfortable. A small reflector is cheap, portable, fast and easy to deploy. It's better than nothing -- and it does get people talking.

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Enshittification

2026-Jul-05, Sunday 21:15
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The Mechanisms Of Enshittification
How the things you buy get worse, who profits from it, and how to tell before you pay.

Find out who owns the brand now, and whether the founder is still there and still in control, because that one fact predicts more than any review. Check whether the company went through bankruptcy in the last decade, and who bought the name out of it. If the brand is public, check what share of its revenue goes to marketing. Notice when the same brand turns up at a flagship store and at Costco and at TJ Maxx all at once, a sign the name has been split across tiers and licensees. Ask how the person selling to you gets paid, because commission turns every recommendation into a sale. And run the math that marketing is built to keep you from running: divide the price by the years the thing will genuinely last, and compare across fifteen years instead of one weekend, because the cheap option you replace twice over is usually the expensive one. If you cannot find out who actually makes a product, that is your answer.


As much as possible, buy things direct from the creator or at least from a company still run by its founder(s).

There are a few other options. Goods sold in Amish territory tend to be rock-solid because those folks are very frugal, make a lot of their own stuff, and have zero patience with planned obsolescence.

Also, be prepared to quit purchasing a category of product that has become useless. If it's not going to do the damn job anyway, you might as well keep your money in your pocket.

Wildlife

2026-Jul-05, Sunday 15:28
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The first primates may have evolved in the cold, not the tropics

A surprising new study suggests the earliest primates didn't originate in tropical forests but in cold, dry parts of North America. Some may have even survived seasonal Arctic conditions by slowing their metabolism or hibernating. Researchers found that dramatic climate shifts, rather than warmth, played a major role in driving primate evolution and expansion. The discovery reshapes our understanding of how our own lineage began.


<3 snow monkeys.

Fossils

2026-Jul-05, Sunday 15:21
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Ancient bees turned tooth sockets into tiny nurseries 20,000 years ago

A stunning fossil discovery shows that ancient bees used the empty tooth sockets of mammal bones as tiny nests after owls scattered the bones across a cave floor 20,000 years ago. It's the first known evidence of bees nesting inside animal bones, revealing an astonishingly creative survival strategy.


Fascinating. It seems to be a unique but likely extinct species of bee which nested in bones, but without any actual bee remains, this cannot be proven.

They're from the Caribbean island of Hispaniola, shared by Haiti and the Dominican Republic, though so feel free to toss them into Peculiar Obligations as a prompt.

Birdfeeding

2026-Jul-05, Sunday 13:53
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Today is cloudy, humid, and not but not quite as bad as yesterday.

I fed the birds.  I've seen a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches.

I put out water for the birds.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

I've heard bobwhite quail calls.  :D

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I started work on a repair job outdoors.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did more work on a repair job outdoors.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did more work on a repair job outdoors.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did more work on a repair job outdoors.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did more work on a repair job outdoors.

I've seen a male cardinal and a robin in the forest garden.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did more work on a repair job outdoors.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I did more work on a repair job outdoors.

EDIT 7/5/26 -- I finished the repair job outdoors.  *goflopnow*

Fireflies are coming out.  Cicadas are singing.

As it is getting dark, I am done for the night. 

Audio

2026-Jul-04, Saturday 16:39
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Podfic Feedback Toolbox: 5 ways to give great podfic feedback

In podfic meta discussions, it periodically comes up that some people want to leave feedback on podfic but just aren't sure what to say. This post is an attempt to give some new ideas to anyone who would like to expand their repertoire for expressing their thoughts about podfic. It is not meant to pressure listeners to leave feedback if they don't feel comfortable with that. Hopefully it will work more like a toolbox, providing tools that people can use to help them accomplish their pre-existing goals more easily and successfully.

Economics

2026-Jul-04, Saturday 14:06
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New Law Will Protect Kids’ Lemonade Stands After State Employees Were Caught Demanding Fees

If it can be believed, state house Representative Cam Cavitt (R-Cheboygan), had the issue brought to his attention after the local health department in his district demanded that some children pay repeated fees to run their lemonade stands.

The parents reached out to Cavitt, who introduced common sense protections for the classic child-run, non-alcoholic beverage stand, and it passed overwhelmingly in the state house
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Bluntly put, if you want children to grow into diligent working adults, you must not stifle their efforts to earn money by working. Similarly if you want them to inhabit the brick-and-mortar world, instead of video game worlds, then you must allow them to accomplish things outdoors. What children need protection from is exploitation by adults.

Birdfeeding

2026-Jul-04, Saturday 12:36
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Today is cloudy, muggy, and hot.  Yesterday's rain never arrived, but there's more chance today too.

I fed the birds.  I've seen a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches.

I put out water for the birds.  Honeybees are busy carrying water to the hive.

EDIT 7/4/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 7/4/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

I've seen two starlings, a mourning dove, and a male cardinal in the forest garden.

EDIT 7/4/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

EDIT 7/4/26 -- I watered tree seedlings in the savanna.

Queen Anne's lace and frost asters are blooming in the savanna and prairie garden.  Purple echinacea and yellow coneflower are blooming in the wildflower garden.  Wild bergamot is blooming in several places in the prairie garden.  The first few cosmos are blooming in the north notch of the prairie garden.  :D  

I hear thunder to the south, I can see rain to the northwest, and we're starting to get a downdraft.  I don't know if the promised rain will actually arrive, though.  I hope so.  We need it because the ground is drying out from the heat, even as humid as it's been.

EDIT 7/4/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

It drizzled earlier, just enough to wet the leaves and make small puddles in the road.

EDIT 7/4/26 -- I went outside to watch distant fireworks for a while.  There were well over a dozen shows in view.  :D  The storm didn't bring much water but did drop the temperature to near-comfortable level.

I am done for the night.

Philosophical Questions: Morals

2026-Jul-04, Saturday 00:47
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People have expressed interest in deep topics, so this list focuses on philosophical questions.

Should the government be involved in making laws to regulate moral behavior? If so, to what extent?


No. Morality is personal, often religious, and trying to force yours on anyone else just starts fights. Laws should be about practicalities and keeping the peace. Therefore, laws that start more fights than they prevent are bad laws.



Trees

2026-Jul-03, Friday 23:39
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Cities can't afford to keep treating trees like decoration

Stand under a big old tree on a sweltering afternoon and you’ll understand something city planners are only now starting to take seriously: that shade isn’t decoration. It’s doing a job.

Trees are cooling the block, catching stormwater before it floods the street, and scrubbing pollution out of the air a person’s actually breathing
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Actually it's doing about 22 jobs.

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Writing About Fireworks

2026-Jul-03, Friday 23:06
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In honor of the Fourth of July, here are a few tidbits to enjoy.

Today's Adventures 6/27/26 -- We watched the show in Tolono.


NEW POEM

"Looking Up into the Sky at the Same Time"
Story Date: Thursday, July 3, 2014
Summary: Oscar accompanies Labib's family to Fire Mountain Farm for classes about fire and fireworks safety.
778 lines, Buy It Now = $389
[Follows "Like I Could Throw Off Sparks"]

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Birdfeeding

2026-Jul-03, Friday 22:41
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Common birds are secretly pollinating Britain's flowers

The fieldwork was conducted at Wicken Fen, a National Trust nature reserve in Cambridgeshire. The reserve is an 800-hectare (about 1,980-acre) patch of old fenland, thick with birds and flowering shrubs.

Local bird ringers caught birds in fine mist-nets across several spring and summer seasons. Right after each capture, the team swabbed the bird’s beak, head, and chin for pollen. The overall tally was striking. Of the birds sampled in one full season, 89% carried pollen of one kind or another. That covered at least one individual from each of 29 species. Pollen, it turned out, was almost everywhere across the bird community
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Pay attention to the habitat: it was wild, on the wet side, and brushy. Many small songbirds love this kind of habitat. In a small yard, you can create a rain garden or wildlife pond that includes spring-flowering bushes. They offer not only early food but also great cover and nesting space. Include a patch of soft mud, as many birds use that to build their nests.

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Early Humans

2026-Jul-03, Friday 18:10
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Ice Age hunters spread across the Americas by following giant animals

For years, many archaeologists have argued that the first people to spread across the Americas survived by eating whatever each new landscape offered, from small game and fish to edible plants.

Well, that's dumb. Nomadic people tend to follow the biggest game they can find.

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Today's Adventures

2026-Jul-03, Friday 17:46
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Today we went up to Champaign-Urbana.

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Agriculture

2026-Jul-03, Friday 17:06
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Biggest Change to English Farming Policy Since WWII Aims to Make Agriculture Profitable and Resilient

From the halls of Westminster comes the news that English farmers may finally be covered under a national agriculture policy that extends beyond the next harvest.

In what it described as “the most significant moment for English agriculture since the Second World War,” the currently-leaderless Labor government has prepared a 25-year farming plan to make the industry more profitable, productive, sustainable, and resilient
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Potentially promising.

But did they do anything about the bloody sheep eating every stick of forest that isn't fenced in? I doubt it. Pipe up if you have details on that, though. I'm also curious if it has provisions for the "continue to heat up" (if the AMOC stays stable) vs. "suddenly freeze" (if the AMOC collapses) split climate future scenarios.

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Gaming

2026-Jul-03, Friday 11:55
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Indie charity bundle for Accessibility in Tabletop Roleplaying Games (Pay What You Want)

This is a pay what you want bundle, where any proceeds go to the charity DOTS RPG Project, which is dedicated to making rpgs more accessible for everyone!

We have mini RPG's of 24 words and full systems over 200 pages! Games that add an element of skill or dexterity to dice rolling, and ones that forego rolling and focus on irl actions taken in day-to-day life! Solo games journaling or otherwise, for gm lead groups, and one where a full party of players controls a single character!

Projects to support full campaigns or for one or two sessions of adventure! A toolkit for accessibility in fate, and ones focused on something expansive as a sprawling skyborne realm, or as small as a way to generate roads on the fly for chase or driving sequences! Dice and tarot cards and trading cards! Sci-fi and fantasy and historical fiction! Whatever you look for in an rpg you can probably find some of it here
!


Are you sick of assholes making the world less accessible? Poke a bigot in the eye with this game bundle!

Birdfeeding

2026-Jul-03, Friday 11:51
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Today is mostly sunny and sweltering.

I fed the birds. I haven't seen much activity though.

I put out water for the birds.

EDIT 7/3/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 7/3/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 7/3/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 7/3/26 -- I bagged up some apricot pits in damp sand to stratify in the fridge. Two are untreated. Two soaked in warm water overnight. I still have plenty of apricots left. I'd like to try cracking some of the pits or better yet extracting the seeds.

EDIT 7/3/26 -- I watered the telephone pole garden. The current lilies are blooming white or yellow, of which the white ones have a lovely lily scent.

In the white garden, the white echinacea has survived and is blooming. :D

The bottom branches of the golden rain tree, which bloomed first, now have pale green seedpods. The upper branches are still blooming with tufts of yellow flowers.

EDIT 7/3/26 -- I watered the new picnic table garden. Some cherry tomatoes are almost ripe. Some volunteer sunflowers have buds.

I've seen at least 2 bats swooping along the road and the driveway.

Sadly, I've seen no sign of the predicted rain.

As it is getting dark, I am done for the night.

Follow Friday 7-3-26: Nature

2026-Jul-03, Friday 01:10
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Today's theme is Nature.

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